A Letter to my Younger Mamma Self

Dear Younger Mamma Self,

You are so needed, needed by your husband, your children. Those times when you feel unimportant or that you aren’t enough are such lies. You are vital to them even when you are feeling like a failure, you are the farthest thing from a failure in their eyes. Love yourself. That teaches your daughter how to love her body and herself as she has been made. That teaches your son what value inner beauty and self worth in a women looks like. Slow down, enjoy each day because they never come again. Tomorrow they will be a little bigger and a little more independent. Let those dishes sit, the dust gather, if the choice is that or reading a story with them chose the story. Teach them how to play while working hard, its a skill that is vital. Love your husband, teach them what a marriage looks like, dress up for the date night, let them see you kiss each other hello-or just because. Take pictures of your adventures and of the everyday.enough

Focus less on your career, when they are bigger there will be more time for your dreams again. That starter business will take more time than you would ever dream it would. Laugh everyday, you do a good job of this so continue to laugh, show them that a water fight in the house is ok, their jaws will drop open in shock, I promise, I’ve seen it!

I write these things not because you didn’t do them well, but because some days you didn’t feel like they were enough. The world tells us our success is measured in the money we make, the house we live in, and the car we drive. This mamma no longer has newborns, toddlers, preschoolers; this mamma is on the verge of the teenage years, well into the school kid stage. I promise you at that stage you don’t see the value of money and career success the same as before. You see the real value of just holding your baby smelling that sweet baby smell, reading a story, being home in time for bed, playing in the dirt, or kicking a ball together.

I can’t go back, I wouldn’t if I could because you really are on your way to becoming a great woman. A woman who loves deeply and laughs without hesitation. So press on dear mamma your doing it right, don’t give up or lose heart. Don’t listen to the lies that are being told to you, I still know this is oh so hard because I still struggle with hearing the lies. Now I defeat them with truth. Find the truth and pour that over your heart everyday.


I can do all things through Him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13

Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand. Isaiah 41:10

But Jesus looked at them and said to them, ‘With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible. Matthew 19:26

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7

But when I am afraid, I will put my trust in you. I praise God for what he has promised. I trust in God, so why should I be afraid? What can mere mortals do to me? Psalm 56: 3-4

I love you dear younger mamma, you are a brave soul on a great journey. Hardships will come, love will see you through, be brave and have courage.

Much love,

Your Older Mamma Self-who still has much growing left to do.

PS: Mamma if you still doubt the importance you have in your child’s life take a quick peek at this:

This shows us we are so important to our children that they know us blindfolded. They have you memorized, they know you by your smell, the feel of your hands, the shape of your face and the texture of clothing you would have on. Your presence in their lives is so needed and precious. Don’t spend one more second thinking you aren’t enough!

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18 thoughts on “A Letter to my Younger Mamma Self

  1. So beautiful! Love this. I often “wish” I could go back to my younger mom self with all my older mom wisdom. But my children are who they are because of the life we shared and I would not change them. Thank you for sharing!

  2. And then when your kids are going beyond teenagers, there are even more truths to share! Just take the time to LOVE your kids! This was a beautiful post! Thank you!

  3. Thank you for this post today. Such a valuable thing for us to hear, and a message I should read every day. The world has such a strong tug. But God is in the small. Glad we are neighbors on #RaRaLinkup. Blessings!

  4. My daughter is going to college in the fall. I am so glad for all the cuddling, the reading, the quiet times together. There are regrets and not-so-proud moments but I can tell absolutely anyone that every single middle-of-the-night project involving copious glue & household item; every minute spent in parent conferences, school plays and watching 200 kids get awards to see that big smile while holding a certificate for whatever; stress over the right dress, shoes and hair for every single formal (yeah, high school is enlightening!) – every single bit of it is closely treasured.

    And I’m breathing a sigh of relief. (Seriously!)

    So to you younger mamas: Enjoy the ride!

    Thanks. I needed this reminder to continue to squeeze her tight!

    Visiting you today from Suzie’s place.

  5. What encouragement this is! I want to read that intro over and over. Lord, help these truths sink in. Thank you so much for this. I needed it. Cheering you on from the #RaRalinkup on Purposeful Faith.

  6. Such a beautiful and encouraging post. The evil one has such a crafty way to trick us even into thinking we are not valuable. I struggled when I first was let go from a job I had 12 years, back in November 2014. Somedays it is tough but I keep myself in His word and I know I am loved and I really appreciate that you posted this. What a lovely blessing and I know many need this! Thank you

  7. So great to read this and be reminded! We have sign in our hallway that says, please excuse the mess we are busy making memories. My house will be spotless again some day, but today I chose my kids.

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